Recap of Mudbone's wedding

Last weekend the last great pimp settled down. My man Mudbone handed over his card to me and turned it in for life. I don't know what to do now and in the future for singles guidance, guess I will have to fend for myself. I didn't think he was ready either, but he seems happy, and I don't know why he shouldn't be happy, he has a great wife, and his head is still on his shoulders, so God bless.

The main point of today's post is this, what do you do when you know somebody isn't right for you. Well, that's not the actual truth either, when everybody around you who means something to you says that a person just isn't right for you? Just in an effort not to feel left behind, I brought a date to the wedding. Now don't get me wrong, I like the girl, she is nice, otherwise I wouldn't have asked her to go.

Yet, at least three separate people at the wedding told me to drop her. They didn't talk to her for a long time, don't really know her at all, but just based on first impression of her, and how well they knew me, all three individuals told me to find another person. Now, should I listen or not? The girl is cool, I like her, and at some point in time you can't listen to everybody else. However, if everybody says it, then there must be some truth to it.

We shall see what the future holds. As for the moment, I'm just gonna put a little extra space between me and this person, as that seems to be what they desired anyway. The Lord works in mysterious ways, and he will solve all problems. Not to mention that's only one female, the problems I'm having with two other chicks are even worse. If we didn't need to make babies, I promise I would get rid of all of them.

Running Away

Today's Post covers to parts of running away. The first of which being that I need to be studying, but instead I'm running away from my work, writing in this blog. The second of which is how to get away from people, or situations, or relationships that one doesn't want to be involved.

I have a friend who I went a little too far with some months ago, and she has gotten a little attatched. What started off as a friendship has now turned into an annoyance. Have you ever had a friend that's cool to hang around with, but only in pieces, or small spurts? Well this is her, she long ago went over her time limit for an entire damn year. When women get attatched they call just a little too much, notify you every time that they see you, even go out of their way to spend time with you. Completely unnecessary.

Now the question is how to cut off the friendship? Do I just not spend time with her anymore, tell her directly, cut off all communication? The Mac man that I am, in relationships past I have told women "I can't stand you anymore, just the sound of your voice makes me want to scream, go away!" Obviously readers, that didn't work so well. Can somebody out there please tell me the best way to go. This particular chick is a crier, and all men will tell you, we hate to see them cry. Even if we are right, it makes us feel wrong. Plus dammit, in this case I'm not wrong!

Right now I'm trying the busy, indirect avoidance technique. If this doesn't work, I might revert to my old means...Hurt her feelings, turn around and walk away. But, I hope it doesn't come to that. Why can't you women just read between the damn lines?

Comfortable with Self

Hey world, after a long hiatus the Mac man has been re-inspired to stay dedicated to his blog. I know you missed me out there, but don't worry, I will keep you laughing and thinking for many more years to come.

Do you know anybody who just has no self-confidence? I have a friend who, even in his mid-twenties still has no idea of self. Worse yet is that instead of taking the time to figure out who he is, he is molding himself after others who he thinks that he wants be to like. Six months ago he was a chubby, socially insecure, quiet dude. Now, he is a buff, socially insecure, quiet dude who occasionally gets loud.

It's this simple, my friend is looking for a girlfriend, only he doesn't know it, and he thinks that he's looking for multiple sex partners. Occasionally women throw that cat at him, yet he turns it down, always with some trivial reason. Yet he goes out 3-4 times per week, on a desperate quest to find somebody to have sex with.

He has a friend that supposedly has sex with lots of girls, and that's who he emulates himself after. This promiscuous dude is loud, ego-centric, selfish, and uncaring. Now my friend was the exact opposite to this, yet he changes. Occasionally I'll catch him doing things that don't fit in with his character, but that of the other dude.

I need to sum this up, because I can go on all day. People of the world, hear me out, get comfortable with you. Nobody in this world is quite like you, accept that and embrace it. When you become peaceful with self, no one's opinion will bother you, and you will have no problem making your own path. The Mac man is definitely a trend setter. For years people have told me that I act too old for my age, or I don't dress appropiately, or my taste in music is older than me. Yet I'm still not gonna change, I really enjoy self. A little staying I stole from Kanye West and edited to fit my style goes, "If I get lonely I'll just look in the mirror".