Saturday, June 24, 2006

Suffocation

Ma Mac always tells me you gotta have your own life. That if you are around somebody too much, you will be suffocated, and things will end up worse than they started. This seems to have stuck with me my entire life, as with any chick I deal with, I demand "me time". At the present moment I couldn't imagine talking to somebody everyday.
So the question is how much is too much. I mean, would it be wrong to talk to a girl everyday? The Mac Man has some firm rules on these things, and the first is DO NOT CALL ME EVERYDAY. You will quickly learn that I am not tolerant of some chick who demands way too much of my time. Keep it fresh, I mean, when a relationship feels like a obligation, and not something you love to do, that is definitely a problem.
Next is, at what point in time does one let a girl do her own thing. For example, if she is hungry, and I am not, must I go get her some food? I'm sure the average answer out there is yes. So, what if I'm busy getting my doctor on, and she is on messenger? Heffer get yo ass up and go get something to eat. I don't believe in babying girls, since how one starts is how one must maintain.

Readers, that bears repeating. HOW ONE STARTS IS HOW ONE MUST MAINTAIN. In other words, if you start off by putting up a front, then it will be the death of your relationship. *Now back to the main show*

Finally, and this point strikes me closest to my heart, because underneath the facade, I'm really an introvert. When one is hanging out with their significant other, must they remove themselves from the world. Example, Lady Mac is out with her coming home from shopping with her girls, and she is hungry. Now, say I call her up and say I'm hungry as well. Do I say 1. "let's go out to eat with your girls!", or 2. "Drop them and lets go have dinner." Now, I don't mean those times when I'm really trying to get Lady Mac naked and going through the motions. I'm referring to when I'm really hungry. One option separates her and me from the world, and one option includes me in her group of friends I could really give a damn for.
Well, it's a good thing that Mac man don't mind doing things on his own, I can tell a brawd go hang with your girls, I can have fun with two good eyes and an appetite. The moral of the story is this, the Mac man does not handcuff these boppers, unless it's in the bedroom of course, where that's only the beginning of my tricks!

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